There is something very wrong in a nation and a society where the most fundamental human relationships are mired in violent brutality.
Zeenat 17, was caught off guard when her own mother doused her with petrol and set her on fire. Her crime? She had dared to marry the man of her choice and had left home to elope and make a life with him.
Incidents like this are everyday news in Pakistan.
Pakistan is the third most dangerous country to be a woman.
As per media reports, Zeenat had married Hassan a week ago after leaving her house. Zeenat’s mother Parveen contacted her and told her that she had forgiven her. Parveen took her daughter back home, assuring her that she wants to arrange a proper marriage function for her. Early in the morning, on June 8, 2016, Parveen doused Zeenat in petrol and set her on fire. The victim succumbed to burn injuries in the hospital. And, so the nation has observed silently as yet another young woman has been set on fire, taking the toll to three in the past two months.
The act of live burning of young girls has become endemic. While most go unreported, recently three cases have found space in the press.
There is the case of 19-year-old Maria Sadaqat and 16-year-old Amber who were burnt for daring to exercise their right to choose whom to marry. While the former was burnt for refusing a marriage proposal, the latter was torched for assisting her friend to elope.
The State does little to protect its vulnerable; despite constitutional guarantee and laws guaranteeing free will to the women of Pakistan, they are denied their fundamental right. “Honour killing” alone claims a thousand lives each year in Pakistan. It is as if free will has become a crime in “the land of the pure”.
Women are forced to marry against their will and many suffer domestic violence for as long as they live. At times cases of violence against women garner media attention, but nothing is done to curb the menace. In the annals of Pakistani women’s victimization, these three girls will go down as just other unfortunate souls who met a gruesome end. Such incidents neither elicit a change in mind-set nor do they bring about any concrete action plan from the State.
Despite a lapse of 69 years since its inception, the State has not been able to empower its women and girls. Rather, Pakistan has regressed to the stone ages, where women may have been traded and bartered as chattel. While their peers are heading nations, corporations, and multinational entities, Pakistani women have to suffer the wrath of the Council of Islamic Ideology, who dwell on the best methods to hit a woman and what kind of weapons can be used to “lightly” beat wives.
The increasing intolerance and radicalization is reflected in the societal disorder that manifests every time a woman suffers torture and violence. Legislative lip service such as Women Protection Act, Anti-Honour Killing Laws Amendment) Bill 2014 and Anti-Rape Laws have failed to change the patriarchal mindset; the laws have lost their credibility due to lack of implementation. Sensitization of police and general public is not even an empty mantra anymore. In a conservative society, rooted in orthodox interpretations of Islam, change in mindset is hard to come by. Radicalization and militarization has further eroded the moral fabric of the society, generating intolerance and violence against the more vulnerable.
Violence against women is a natural outcome in a morally bankrupt society, which has reduced its mothers, sisters, daughters to chattels, who do not have any say in their lives. Rule of law is a misnomer in a country where barbaric actions are granted impunity. The complete judicial and executive apathy is proven by one statistic alone: the conviction rate for “honour killing” in Pakistan is close to zero.